Monday, June 09, 2008

The Baby Story and Update

So.....for all the friends and family that read our blog that haven't heard the rough story of how this baby came about, here it goes. About 8 months ago, Ben and I were feeling especially romantic..........just kidding! Anyway, on Thursday night, I was having some braxton hicks which was not uncommon for me or any pregnant woman. But, they were hurting me a little but not coming on a regular basis. I read in my pregnancy book that if it is not your first pregnancy you can experience some pain towards the end of your pregnancy with these but make sure you don't have more than four in an hour. I thought nothing more of it. I went to bed later and remember dreaming about having contractions and in my dream specifically I kept having the same four contractions over and over. Once my brain woke up a little I started to realize that I was having real pain and it wasn't a dream so I continued to toss and turn for a few minutes and realized I should start timing these pains. 3:13 a.m.......ouch, 3:19 a.m.......that hurts, 3:25 a.m.......uh, 6 minutes apart! These aren't braxton hicks anymore. I have never gone into labor before so I had no clue what to do at this point. I woke Ben up to tell him what was going on. We think we should go to the hospital but I'm like, what if it's not labor, what are we gonna do with the kids, I'm just 34 weeks pregnant.....CRAP!! I call my brother and wife that live a few miles away to see if someone could stay with our kids. They think it is just braxton hicks. I somewhat believe them so I call a nurse hot line that our insurance company has. I'm in total pain right now and she's asking me stuff like, what is your height, address, # of prenatal visits, hair color.....whatever lady, I gotta go to the hospital. Call my brother back and talk to his wife ....Diane, you sound like you're in pain but give it a little longer. Crap, they are 3 minutes apart by now. NO!! can Josh come sleep on the couch, I'm IN LABOR!! Run upstairs and get dressed. Ben picks up Josh and we head to the hospital which is about 20 minutes away. I get there. Have two contractions while walking in. The admissions lady is taking forever while I have 5 contractions. I'm starting to worry by now that she might come out in the chair because she was breech at her appointment just days earlier and I knew I would need a C-section. I get upstairs and the midwife and doctor come in. I am bleeding heavily at this point and getting very worried. I immediately tell them I need a C-section hoping they would hurry. But, they do a quick ultrasound to find the head and she was in the birth canal, head down and I was already at a 10! . WHAT!! I was very happy about that because ultimately I didn't want a C-section but was open to it because I thought I needed it and because I didn't want to go through labor after a hard pregnancy. I was in triage for that and then they moved me to a birthing room where they started my I.V. and got things ready. Then they tell me the midwife was busy. GREAT! As soon as she got there she broke my water and I push her out at 5:31 a.m. I think, I just woke up at 3:13. Man that was fast. No epidural.....I was happy about that because I didn't want one. No pain meds......because the stuff they offered makes me whacked. They look at the baby for about twenty minutes and decide she should go to the NICU. I got discharged Sunday and Ben and I come back twice a day for 3 to 4 hours at a time to feed her and be with her. As of today (Wednesday) she is ready to go home but will probably not go home until tomorrow. Cami had several things that she had to do before she was ready to come home. She had to keep her body temperature up on her own without heating lights. She did that. She had to be able to sleep in a regular crib instead of the special heated one. She did that. She had to be able to feed from the breast or a bottle for 24 hours straight and eat all the required amount and not from her feeding tube. She did that as of this morning. She had a sleep study performed because she would stop breathing several times a day and would need to be stimulated to start breathing again. So now, we have to get her a monitor to take home to alert us when she heeds to be rubbed to help her start to breathe again and she has to take caffeine orally once a day to help stimulate her to remember to breathe. I know, caffeine, weird, huh? At this point, Ben and I have to be taught infant CPR, she has to get her monitor and we have to just spend a little time with her practicing everything before we take her home. We don't want to rush anything so that is why it will be tomorrow before she comes home. I am hoping that it will be fairly early in the day so Ben will have lots of time with her before he leaves for India on Saturday. We'll post more pictures very soon......like later today.

8 comments:

Emily said...

Oh man...didn't you just want to punch your brother and sister in law in the face?!!

Sorry if they are reading this.

That sounds scary and painful and WAY too fast to have a baby! But I'm so glad that she's doing great in the NICU and will be able to go home soon. Diane, you are awesome...a total trooper.

Ummm...Ben is going to India? Did he forget already that you just had a baby?

JLMartin said...

Sounds like she is getting stronger every day. Congrats again!

Skye said...

Wow! Drama! If nothing else, it sounds exciting. Much better than your typical baby story. I'm glad everyone is doing well.

I can't believe Ben is going to India still! Crazy. Do you have someone to help you there?

Jill said...

Wow! That is a surprise! Congrats and she is absolutely beautiful. And soooo teeny! Love her name too.

Diane, you are incredible. I can't believe you got to the hospital at a 10! I am so happy to hear that little Cami is doing so well! So how are YOU feeling?

Did you really say India? What's up with that?

Rachael said...

Oh Diane! Thanks for the update, so happy you did not have to have a C-section on top of everything else! I must say, you have put me on edge, you just never know how things will go. Thanks for all the pictures, she is darling!

Jessica said...

Oh what a story! I'm so glad you survived the ordeal. I'm not sure I would have made it without painkillers. . . I'm so impressed! At the least the pregnancy is over with, right? She is darling, and I'm so glad you and the baby are healthy. Good luck living through the trip to India! You poor thing. . .

Kim said...

Wow! That is so crazy! Congrats to your whole family and I'm glad to hear she's doing so well! :o) She's a doll!

Lawther family said...

Sounds like a fun night. I would have been so upset if my brother had done that to me. Cami sounds like a very strong little girl. I am happy that everything went well. Once again you have proven that you are the ultimate Super Mom!

Whats this about Ben going to India?!? I hope you have someone to help you with the kids while he is a way?